The hidden risk of being the most experienced person in the room

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This week, I want to talk about something few senior leaders ever admit — how experience, your greatest strength, can quietly turn against you.

You’ve earned your reputation. You’ve built credibility through years of results, tough calls, and hard lessons. You’ve carried the weight of decisions that shaped teams, careers, even entire business units. But there’s a subtle risk that comes with that level of experience: relying too much on what worked before.

Because the more certain you become of what works, the less space you leave for what’s possible.

When expertise turns into autopilot

You’ve seen it all. You’ve led through crises, transformations, restructures. You know what “good” looks like. But that same confidence can become a comfort zone. You stop asking questions because you already have the answers. You stop listening because you’ve heard it all before.

And without realising it, you start leading from the past.

The signs are rarely dramatic. They’re subtle, almost invisible at first. Your team stops challenging you. Meetings feel predictable. Innovation slows down — not because the ideas aren’t there, but because your people have stopped bringing them up.

No one tells you this part of senior leadership: the higher you climb, the easier it becomes to stop evolving.

A 2023 study by McKinsey showed that companies led by leaders who prioritise curiosity and continuous learning are 30% more likely to outperform their peers in innovation and growth. So It’s not what you’ve learned that defines your edge, but your willingness to keep learning.

When experience stops being an advantage

There comes a point in senior leadership when experience can start getting in your own way. You’ve spent years earning your credibility — knowing the answers, solving the problems, being the steady hand everyone relies on. That certainty feels good. It’s what’s built your success.

But over time, that same certainty can start to close things off. You rely on what you know instead of what you might learn. You lead by telling rather than exploring and without meaning to, you stop inviting challenge because it feels easier — faster — to decide on your own.

One of my clients, a Managing Director at a global bank, recognised this pattern during our work together. He’d built an impressive career on being decisive, structured, and right. But lately, he’d noticed that his team had stopped bringing him ideas. Not because they didn’t have any, but because they’d learned that every idea would be met with a better one — his.

Through our coaching, we explored what might happen if he stopped leading with answers and started leading with curiosity. What might happen if he began to ask more questions, to hold space a little longer before responding, to invite others to shape the solution.

The impact was immediate. His team’s energy returned, conversations became more creative and collaborative, and the way others saw him began to change — from being the most experienced person in the room to being the one who brought out the best in everyone else.

3 shifts to keep growing as a senior leader

Growth at senior levels doesn’t come from doing more — it comes from doing things differently. These three shifts can help you stay open, relevant, and impactful no matter how much experience you’ve built.

  1. From certainty → to curiosity

    Certainty feels powerful, but curiosity is what keeps you relevant. The moment you think you already know something, you stop listening. So invite others into your thinking before you decide — ask your team how they’d approach a challenge before you share your view. You’ll discover fresh perspectives and empower stronger ownership.

    Next time you’re tempted to say “Here’s what we should do” try instead “What are we missing?”

  2. From control → to trust

    The higher you rise, the less effective control becomes. You can’t be across everything, and trying to be only limits others. True leadership is about creating the conditions for trust to thrive, that means letting go of being the one who decides, approves, or fixes everything. When you trust your team to lead within their space, they grow in confidence, initiative and start taking more ownership of results.

  3. From proving your value → to amplifying others

    At senior levels, your success is reflected in the success of those around you, so instead of showcasing your expertise, use your experience to spotlight others.

    Shift your one-to-one conversations from updates to development. When someone comes to you with a question, resist the urge to solve it — ask what they’d do instead. You build far more credibility by creating leaders who can think independently than by being the one who always has the answer.

Experience is an incredible asset — but only when it’s balanced with curiosity. The leaders who continue to rise are the ones who stay open to new ideas, new people, and new ways of leading.

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Leadership isn’t built overnight. It’s built in the choices you make every day.

Each week, The Leadership Edge brings you one step closer to leading with influence, presence, and impact. Keep leaning into the edge, that’s where growth happens.

See you in the next edition,

Tania Carvalho
Founder & Executive Coach

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